I know 25-year-old Russian woman in California who is happily married to an American guy.

She just told me that she is expecting her first child, and that she and her husband are both very happy.

As she began to share it with your friends, she noticed two very different answers to her the good news.

Her friends Russian universally ecstatic and filled with excitement.

Huge smiles equally huge, sparkling eyes greeted her statement.

Someone openly wept for joy, hugs, kisses and a lot of compliments spoke with pride and dedicated to her.

And my own experience in Russia fully supports this.

Because, when it was announced the impending arrival is an incredible emotional energy in the room, and you can not help but feel deep gratitude for the all important celebration of life itself.

If you would never be able to witness it, you would understand how close the Russian women can be to each other.

Beautiful and education to behold. This close-knit and loving sisterhood, which always makes me smile and gives me hope for humanity.

However, when news of her pregnancy started making rounds with the American women she knows .. This led to a completely different reaction.

    I heard the news .. Are you okay ?!?!?!
    Oh, my God? What would you do?!?
    Are you sure you are happy?
    Are you going to keep it?

My newly pregnant friend told me that she felt as if some tragedy befell her, and these grim expression "concerns" were no different then if someone in the family has just died.

It is sensitive young lady and this line surveys makes it feel very uncomfortable.

Nastia little uncertainty began to creep into the health of her unborn child or on its ability to be a good mother.

In addition, she was under the impression that these women were treated with it, as some poor unmarried teenagers, instead of the responsible and mature young lady she is. Maybe she just does not fit for a beautiful 25-year-old deliberately have a child with her husband and be happy about it.

I told her to relax and realize that this was just another very bad aspect of feminism in the United States.

I wanted to ask her a question.

"If these American women in their 20's and 30's?"

She was very surprised by my line of questioning, but confirmed that it was true and asked why I would like to know?

"This is because many American women in this age group have a real problem of identity and inspire children to avoid at all costs."

"It's awful." She said.

"Yes it is." I replied.

I continued. "You know, fertility clinics big business, because they are long queues of women in their 40s, who suddenly became very desperate for children ... often with or without a man."

She was shocked by this. And even as I tried not to sound too cynical, there was no real way to sugar coat the truth of this.

It was supposed to be her happiest moment, and it probably will not need another piece of garbage heaped social that was her pride.

However, as it turned out, she said she was grateful for the insight.

A few minutes later we gave our farewell and wishes, and hung up ..

At this point, I felt that she left for the evening, it was likely to keep her husband a little more carefully during the night.

Of course, it is more a desire to protect the newly-lit fire, living in her womb ..

.. against the cold, lifeless political winds, who wished to extinguish it.