We can learn much about themselves as men, taking time to observe other creatures in nature.

And one of the most profound discoveries we can do is to understand how much effort put into Mother Nature's programming, much of our self-esteem as men to be dependent on women.

(And, of course, the converse is also true)

Young or old.

Experienced or not.

There are always different levels of dependence at all stages of life.

If we look at the animal world, for example, we can understand why.

Because in the animal world it is men who are trying to attract or approach a woman for mating. And it is women who either accepts or rejects his overtures.

Now what does this mean for us humans, is quite simple and profound ...

Because the genetic level, a huge part of our self-esteem naturally depends on the woman.

It's been hard wired that way from time to time, when we were conceived.

Although this feature is what keeps mankind alive and well ...

It can also be used to exploit us to the more malicious of the opposite sex.

Now because of this, I know there are a number of men's rights groups out there who advocate the complete abandonment of that desire. They often say that men must somehow address this desire and stop "needy" women.

And let me take a moment to surprise the reader to say that I support their advocacy of up to a point ..

Of course, I agree with them, when the poison only thing that is offered, and it's a matter of survival to completely reject it.

But let us even go beyond this for a second and I do not think in terms of self-preservation.

Let's look at the personal growth of people.

I know first hand that there are very positive things do not really need a woman, especially if you are on a mission of self-knowledge and self-development as a person.

And I personally can not give you very strong evidence of this and say that when men do it with honest intent with one another and with tenacity ..

Then over time they will actually turned out to be a very strong, satisfying and full spaces.

(And a common side effect of this is that they are immediately more attractive to women)

Now he is opening it's all fine and good, but on the opposite end of the emotional scale, there are different agendas, "women do not need."

For example ..

I think all of us .. men and women .. at some point in their lives trying to protect his ego from the threat of rejection by playing the game, what I call "Failure Hot Potato".

Let us throw you like a hot potato before you can throw me.

Because if I'm the one who throws first, then I can be the one to tell everyone and myself that I was the one who rejected you!

Now to be fair, I would say that on the surface there is nothing wrong with that.

That's because everything is done at some point. This is an essential part of the emotional process of survival, because trying to operate on a daily basis with crushed the spirit is not an easy task and may actually threaten your ability to survive.

We can only hope that the game of "emotional hot potato" into a valuable growing experience that can serve us well in understanding both themselves and others and help us to develop compassion for all.

At the present time in light of recent events it became clear to me that there is a certain percentage of members in the rights of men who are going through this phase.

And again I would like to reiterate that there is nothing wrong or shameful about it.

However, when it gets to be a problem if they are locked into this mode and it keeps them happier than to find the following changes in your life that depends on the development of a truly loving and intimate relationship.

Now, if this is true, then it is obvious that this is not the most positive outcome.

So when we take stock and look back at the higher motivation "does not need women," we still find that they both leave us hanging out with Mr. Loneliness.

It can be negative or positive alone ..

But as we all know, the man was never meant to live on bread.

And when the hunger for a greater variety of emotional and physical power takes time to really evaluate things and be very honest with yourself.

So, let's go back to Mother Nature's finely tuned engineering plans for our emotional health of both men.

Because it seems so ridiculous at times that I feel need to go through so much detail explanation and excuses just to say something as simple as ..

"Men need women and that's good" ...

But, alas, is the result of a sad and distorted the times in which we live, where they play "emotional hot potato", it seems, protective vests, because so many of us are forced to wear because of the ongoing war that exists between Western men and women.

So here's the deal ...

Game "Emotional Hot Potato" and living alone was never meant to be the default in the mechanism of life ..

This is not the natural state of affairs.

And of course this is not good.

It's going to be true regardless of how many of us go through our daily lives trying to look cool and seemingly detached from the opposite sex.

What's really sad, my eyes when you see people going into denial about their real needs, and believing that it really is.

(Too often, this is mainly because men are poorly amenable to some childish name calling by the feminist, who want to make them feel stupid is looking for his own genetic destiny to love and family)

But now these men are really screwed because they have just made it more difficult for them to get what their body and soul does require going into denial about it first.

And they were easily manipulated in this feminist position.

There is really only one correct solution in all this.

And this is obvious.

Because when you guys have actually done what you need to have a real woman on your side, it just completely changes the world.

Do you have an incredible sense of freedom and growth, which allows you to enter a room that can be filled to the brim with the most malicious feminists.

But you will be blessed, because you just do not care about them.

You have absolutely no more emotionally dependent on them or any other women outside of your home.

When they continue with their usual bile and slander you can speak your mind and confuse the hell out of them, or you can simply choose to smile and be on your merry way.

In any case ..

You have nothing to prove.

That my friends is true, because for the liberation of most of his life were the walls around you, whose builders have invested a lot in that you have found.

But now ..

The walls are still there, but you just have to just go through them at will.

And it frustrates the builders will have no end.

But this does not happen if you are not real with yourself and fully understand.

"Men need women and that's good."

The correct way is the real courage, not the opposite way around.

And with a little courage and an open heart, that day will come when you will have what you need and gentlemen.

And when it happens ..

Just remember I told you.