One of the hardest things for most men to understand that feminist cultural norms are instilled in an absolutely devastating to his dream of a happy marriage with the beautiful and traditional ladies.
And the main factor determining the success or failure for them depends on what path they choose the following:
Bold & Active
OR
Defensive and passive
Now imagine what would happen if you yourself acted in a defensive or apologetic position every day.
It should not be too hard to see that this will lead to a number of problems that would make your life very miserable.
Now let's take it one step further.
Imagine a life where everything you say as people follow some reservations or apologies, because you're constantly expecting an attack, or labeled as one of the following:
*
Violator
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Chauvinist
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Stupid
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Rapist
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Sexist
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Violent
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Lazy
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Irresponsible
... And the list goes on and on.
Tragically Gentlemen this "feminist reeducation camp" culture that many of us were born.
And threw the toxic mix of fear and the labels on someone from an early age to be a very effective method of continuous administration.
Obviously, if we were brought up to believe these things about themselves as men ...
Then, at some level, we were born and manipulation since we were boys to be slaves.
Unfortunately, this is a hostile environment for men is so prevalent in North America that most people accept it as status quo and simply adjust to life apologetic way of life for all their days.
And gentlemen, there is nothing sadder than seeing a once proud and Nobel Man is reduced to the mental and emotional compliant puppet.
Trust me on this ..
This is no way to try to attract or relationship with any woman, not to mention the traditional one of the former Soviet Union.
I'm sure you can imagine what kind of heavy feeling and behavior exist in a place for such a person.
I'm also sure you can imagine the main FEAR and caution that men exercise, with even the most ordinary conversations with women ...
And unfortunately with other men, too ..
It reminds me of the bad old days of the Cold War, when the children in some Soviet bloc countries were taught in school to report their own parents to the communist authorities if they uttered the slightest criticism of the state.
I believe that we are one step away from re-living the nightmare of the past, if we allow feminists to continue their insatiable drive for power and control with "political correctness" campaign, they skillfully hold over the media, culture and identity of our own men.
The very first step you need to do to fix it is also very difficult ..
Because we have to admit that we were all brains in varying degrees from an evil and hostile to feminist culture.
And there's no way to understand the depth of this "brainwashing" as you remove yourself from the Feminist "reeducation" camps, many of us were brought up in and the opportunity to live and experience another country far away from this propaganda and indoctrination.
The fact that someone born in this cruel world where the cards are stacked against them is always a tragedy.
But considering this initial tragedy continues to grow is a disaster.
Because if we are not vigilant and deeply self-aware of this situation is a tragedy in the life of a very bad habit, as metastasis of cancer and spread until it eventually kills the entire body.
Or in this case the human spirit.
We illustrate a simple scenario of this happening.
Tragedy 0
Feminist inspired Western women, along with the popular media, news, and cultural norms, all combine to convey compelling messages that "people are bad."
The tragedy of a
A person raised in this environment, it is natural to have a conventional defensive behavior is motivated by fear and caution in order to keep it "safe."
Tragedy 2
These defensive behaviors to be directly responsible for his inability to have a rewarding relationship with any worthy or traditional woman .. in this case, let's consider Russia or the CIS woman.
Tragedy 3
He goes home disappointed and decides not to trust women more and closes the door in his mind becomes even more bitter, lonely and insecure.
That's my point to warn you about the consequences of any beliefs, attitudes or behaviors that lead to tragedy, number 2 and beyond.
So how can we prevent this from happening before it happens?
My personal advice for you to write a personal diary of all events in the day when you feel like you had to compromise your actions, thinking, or communication, to "protect themselves" or "not offend" someone.
But the most critcal part of this exercise is also a list of the truth about what it is you really wanted to say or do at this point.
This is a very important piece of advice, because you will see that the traditional ladies from Russia or former Soviet Union will be fully ON your ability to speak the truth and will feel more attracted to you because of this.
I think it's important for every person in this situation is to take what he needs to completely destroy the feminist education has created within him and to restore their identity and self-esteem from the ground up, restore, that he knows how his personal truth.
Anyone in this situation must accept the fact that change is always difficult, and yes, this is one of the most difficult changes in his life he can achieve in life ..
Nevertheless, can work on his desire to love and be loved, especially women. And that in itself is a unique opportunity and a powerful motivating force to make things right.
Anyone reading this should accept the fact that regardless of what specific advice I give on how to court traditional Russian woman is the absolute most important advice I can give first, to restore your identity as a traditional MAN.
And how better to do it, always recognizing and expressing the TRUTH.
And that is why it is important for me to encourage you to develop DEEP sense of clarity and motivation that is needed to make both for himself and his future family.
This understanding and your motivation to do something about it the basis and framework for any advice that follows.
Because there is no point in trying to build a new house on top of the old that is already sitting on quicksand.
Stay tuned for more ..